The Father Wound in Women: 3 Ways It Shows Up With Men, and What It Does to Him
In this episode, Lorin explores the father wound and how it shapes the way women experience relationships with men. He opens with a coaching example of a woman who was on the verge of leaving her partner, only to realize she was viewing him through what he calls father wound glasses, projecting her father's patterns onto a man who did not actually carry them.
He outlines three common ways the father wound shows up in relationships: needing constant hits of safety, using distance to avoid vulnerability, and feeling drawn to what is familiar rather than what is safe. He also explains how each pattern affects the man on the receiving end, often leaving him trying to become the father his partner never had, a role he can never truly fill.
The episode closes with four practices for shifting out of these patterns, including separating facts from story and identifying what is hers to own versus his.
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Transcript
But this generational trauma is still very much ingrained in women where they're over giving and needing these hits of safety.
Speaker A:And what these hits of safety are is essentially looking for the safety the father never created in another man.
Speaker A:And the desire for safety is natural, but when it's entangled with the father wound, it becomes this constant need for it.
Speaker A:And a woman who embodies this or is in the grip of this will lose her power, will lose her light, will disconnect from herself in a relationship.
Speaker A:Welcome to the core.
Speaker A:My name is Loreen Kren, and I help people to get to the core of their deepest challenges in relationships, purpose and life, and to create real change at the root.
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Speaker A:Today I'm going to talk about the father wound, especially the three most common ways it shows up in women's relationships with men, what happens to men who are on the receiving end when this wound is not seen, and four immensely powerful practices that you can adopt right after this episode.
Speaker A:When a woman had a challenging relationship with her father, whether it was emotional or physical abandonment or some form of pain was created, or he wasn't a safe presence, the safe presence that she needed growing up, then a woman will wear what I call father wound glasses in her relationships with men.
Speaker A:What this means is that she will never see the man fully and as he is, or for who he truly is.
Speaker A:Better to say she will see him through the glasses of the father wound.
Speaker A:What does this mean?
Speaker A:Allow me to demonstrate it through a very powerful example where I coached a woman exactly on this topic.
Speaker A:She came to me and expressed that she was on the verge of leaving her partner whom she loved deeply.
Speaker A:She shared with me the specifics of why she wanted to leave.
Speaker A:That sounded understandable.
Speaker A:Anyone who would listen to that on the outside would think, well, okay, that makes sense.
Speaker A:But the work I do is I don't just accept everything someone tells me.
Speaker A:I will always dig deeper and get to the core in service to them, to serve them at the highest level.
Speaker A:Because I don't know whether it's a false story or a very compelling story she created inside her own mind.
Speaker A:All of this is unconsciously in order to justify that it's right to leave him.
Speaker A:None of this is deliberate, by the way.
Speaker A:This was a woman who was deeply, deeply honest and came to me with her pain.
Speaker A:So I coached her very, very deeply on this.
Speaker A:And at some point I realized, and I helped her realize that she was looking for Evidence that her partner was exactly like her, her father.
Speaker A:And that many cases, in many cases, might be the actual truth.
Speaker A:Her partner might be like her father and she should leave him, or she should set a very strong boundary and something needs to shift.
Speaker A:It's a very common expression of the father wound that a woman will attract a man who is emotionally available, just like her father was.
Speaker A:But in this case, he was nothing but like her father.
Speaker A:And when I helped her see it, and when I helped her see through this protective mechanism to try to find evidence and to come to conclusions without actually seeing the man in front of her, she had an immensely powerful breakthrough.
Speaker A:And with tears in her eyes, she told me, he's nothing like my father.
Speaker A:And in that moment, everything changed for her.
Speaker A:And it's all about context at times, as I mentioned, the partner might exactly be like her father, and that deserves and requires a different response.
Speaker A:But in this case, she was seeing her man through father wound glasses.
Speaker A:She was constantly looking for the tiniest bit of evidence that this man is gonna leave her be emotionally unavailable or cause a similar pain that her father caused for her.
Speaker A:And it's very important to understand that when we go looking for something, we shall find it.
Speaker A:That is how tricky our mind can be.
Speaker A:Yes, at times it might be correct, and that's a different topic.
Speaker A:And we'll talk about this today as well when this is the case.
Speaker A:But other times, it's the mind jumping to conclusions.
Speaker A:So it's very, very important to take down the father wound glasses and to actually see the man in front of you.
Speaker A:Who is this man?
Speaker A:Truly, another challenge that the woman experienced, whom I was coaching, was that unconsciously she was looking for the father she never had in the man she was with.
Speaker A:This creates also its unique set of challenges where a man is constantly trying to live up to a certain ideal, but he can quite never live up to it, because he cannot be the father she never had.
Speaker A:He can be her partner.
Speaker A:He can be a conscious man who shows up fully, but he cannot compensate for the emotional abandonment or pain that a father has caused.
Speaker A:So, as you can see here, as I demonstrated this example, it is so important to become aware of when a woman experienced a father wound, which most women have, because most fathers were not embodying a safe presence simply because of generational trauma from men.
Speaker A:Men haven't been taught how to embody that.
Speaker A:Men haven't been taught how to give that sense of safety and security, how to give that sense of safety to themselves, how to feel secure inside themselves.
Speaker A:So how could they give it to another?
Speaker A:This is not to justify it or as an excuse.
Speaker A:It is just a lived reality.
Speaker A:Now here are the three most common ways how the father wound shows up in relationships with men.
Speaker A:I already touched upon some of them.
Speaker A:Number one.
Speaker A:Needing constant hits of safety.
Speaker A:This is when a woman is deeply afraid of losing connection with a man.
Speaker A:She will over give, she will please, she will abandon her own soul in order to keep the connection alive.
Speaker A:She will abandon her soul or her truth, her heart, her intuition, for the sake of connection.
Speaker A:This is well known.
Speaker A:And the generational trauma that so many women carry, something that has been ingrained into women that somehow in a relationship it costs you your intuition, it costs you your truth in order to keep the connection alive.
Speaker A:This comes from my perspective.
Speaker A:It comes from during times where women had no rights and women just had to put up with it.
Speaker A:Women just had to accept and tolerate extremely toxic or painful behavior of men simply because what would have been the alternative?
Speaker A:And this is still ingrained in women, even though in many parts of today's world and patriarchy, as we did a recent episode with Terry, Real is still very much alive.
Speaker A:But things have gladly changed, at least in certain ways.
Speaker A:And women no longer depend on men or in certain, in many cases for financial security or their life is not endangered by not keeping their connection alive with a man.
Speaker A:So things have shifted.
Speaker A:But this generational trauma is still very much ingrained in women where they're over giving and needing these hits of safety.
Speaker A:And what these hits of safety are is essentially looking for the safety the father never created in another man.
Speaker A:And the desire for safety is natural, but when it's entangled with the father wounds, it becomes this constant need for for it.
Speaker A:And a woman who embodies this or is in the grip of this will lose her power, will lose her light, will disconnect from herself in a relationship because she is not in her center.
Speaker A:She is looking for the man to tell her you are safe.
Speaker A:Now what this creates unconsciously is it enables what I call the shadow of the of the man.
Speaker A:So if this man is, as any person is, struggling with their shadow, then this over giving behavior and doing everything for the sake of connection means there is no place for your truth and there is no place for your boundaries.
Speaker A:They carry no real weight because you already show through your reactions and day to day that you're willing to do anything to keep the connection alive.
Speaker A:So a man's shadow or another person's shadow cunningly understands that they don't have to change they can just keep doing what they're doing and you're going to put up with it.
Speaker A:This is very rarely conscious.
Speaker A:I mean, we're not talking about narcissism today.
Speaker A:We're not talking about deliberate manipulation, but it's just simply how the shadow operates, how a boundary has no weight until there is real energy behind it and someone is willing to follow through with the consequences of when it is not met.
Speaker A:So here, no matter what you do, until you overcome the need to keep the connection alive at the cost of your own intuition, of your own truth, right, you will continue to be with a man who's going to continue to show up in hurtful ways and not give you the love that you truly deserve.
Speaker A:Number two, distance as a way to maintain safety.
Speaker A:This is because your father could not hold your vulnerability.
Speaker A:So now that level of closeness feels deeply dangerous.
Speaker A:Because what if a man cannot hold it?
Speaker A:And it is true, some men will not be able to hold it.
Speaker A:And hoping for them to do so would just be another expression of the father wants, the constant need as a hit for safety.
Speaker A:Hold my vulnerability.
Speaker A:And very often this will just enable a man's shadow, as I just described.
Speaker A:But in this case, it's the opposite.
Speaker A:It's, I'm not gonna even give a man the chance by creating that distance.
Speaker A:And true intimacy and true connection cannot exist without vulnerability, without letting the other person into your heart.
Speaker A:So here, the coping mechanism, protection mechanism, is to try to somehow protect yourself and still experience intimacy, which is absolutely possible.
Speaker A:But the path of healing looks different.
Speaker A:It's not through distance.
Speaker A:It's through learning how to trust yourself and staying active, anchored in your intuition as you open your heart.
Speaker A:We'll get to that later.
Speaker A:In this episode, you will have moments where you feel extremely close and suddenly a panic arises inside you and you feel to need to shut it down.
Speaker A:You start feeling yourself going numb in that moment.
Speaker A:And what then often happens is third, ashamed.
Speaker A:You think, why am I going numb?
Speaker A:Why am I experiencing this?
Speaker A:Which disconnects you even more from your own body, from your felt sense experience.
Speaker A:Another thing is that a man shows up in a certain way, which might be causing some pain, but it's completely out of proportion, the response to it.
Speaker A:Now, I'm going to be very careful how I speak about this.
Speaker A:I'm not saying that you're overreacting.
Speaker A:What I'm saying is that the pain the father has caused overlaps now with a momentarily loss of trust or a momentarily small conflict.
Speaker A:So, for instance, a woman might say things such as you are, just like my father.
Speaker A:That is a telltale sign that in this moment the father wound has been triggered.
Speaker A:This doesn't mean that what a man does didn't have any impact whatsoever.
Speaker A:If she would heal her father wound, because then that would mean he has no responsibility whatsoever.
Speaker A:That.
Speaker A:That's not what I'm saying at all.
Speaker A:But what I am saying is that the father wound, if it becomes kind of meshed into, blows everything out of proportion.
Speaker A:Instead of being a momentary conflict, a momentary moment of imperfection or something that can be repaired or healed or moved on from, it feels like a huge breaking down of trusts.
Speaker A:Now a shutdown and a numbing might occur that doesn't just last an hour or two hours or a few minutes of annoyance.
Speaker A:It becomes one day, two days, a week, two weeks, or in some cases even longer, which now completely erodes safety, completely erodes intimacy, completely erodes connection.
Speaker A:Then when you connect again, there will be a fear that it's going to happen again.
Speaker A:That fear will be alive kind of in your everyday interactions which already impact the relationship and experience massively.
Speaker A:And then when it happens again, there is another man.
Speaker A:Massive rupture of trust and connection.
Speaker A:So you can see how a cycle then starts to unfold where the woman feels more and more shut down and more and more that she has no control over her experience.
Speaker A:And the man feels that no matter what he does, it's not good enough.
Speaker A:He tries again and again and they find themselves in this kind of chronic cycle of pain and of fearing that it's going to happen again.
Speaker A:This is all because the moment you get really close, the closeness activates the deep fear that your vulnerability and your softness and your love that you feel in that moment, the softness of your heart will not behold and that you will be hurt or that it will be used against you, or something happens that triggers the pain that your father has caused.
Speaker A:And now in that moment, when you are in that reaction, you are certain that he's doing the exact same thing as your father did.
Speaker A:And in most cases, that is not the truth.
Speaker A:Maybe he hasn't shown up fully.
Speaker A:You're annoyed, you're angry, and that is completely fine.
Speaker A:But if it's you're exactly like my father, you can see that there is no escape from that.
Speaker A:Number three, choosing what is familiar.
Speaker A:I already touched upon that this is where a woman chooses a man who resembles in many ways how her father showed up or didn't show up.
Speaker A:So now the nervous system recognizes this as familiar.
Speaker A:And paradoxically, even though it does not create any sense of emotional safety, intimacy or true connection.
Speaker A:She finds herself drawn to such a man at the same time, a man who is consistent, who embodies a safe masculine presence.
Speaker A:She loses attraction for him, or she cannot even see herself as being attracted to him.
Speaker A:I once coached a woman exactly on this topic and what she said to me is that there are men in her life and specifically one man who is like her best friend, he shows up incredibly, he's a strong man, he knows exactly who he is, and he would give her all the love inside his heart.
Speaker A:He's consistent, he had an amazing upbringing.
Speaker A:And yet she could not feel any attraction inside her for him.
Speaker A:She could even cognitively understand that deep down this is the man she should want.
Speaker A:But her body did not feel any attraction towards this man.
Speaker A:And this is a very often a very strong sign, a very strong sign that this woman is confusing the familiar pain with arousal.
Speaker A:Because there is a level of arousal that happens when that's why it's called a trauma bond or that kind of toxic chemistry where it feels like, wow, it's incredible.
Speaker A:But really all it is is that you're being flooded and your nervous system is being completely overwhelmed.
Speaker A:So the journey then here becomes learning how to sit and be in safety and inconsistency.
Speaker A:And if you open yourself to this, you actually start to realize that that is what draws you, that is what feels attractive to you.
Speaker A:This is a journey, so to speak, to unlearn.
Speaker A:It's entirely possible.
Speaker A:But in this example with the woman I coached, she had it to such an extreme that she understood perfectly.
Speaker A:And as I guided her through deep practices, she was able to begin the journey of unlearning and to relate differently to safety.
Speaker A:This is a specific journey.
Speaker A:It's usually not a one step process.
Speaker A:So if you are experiencing this, just know by listening to this episode, by understanding this, you already have the capacity to do so.
Speaker A:But most likely deeper work is needed.
Speaker A:Here is how this impacts men.
Speaker A:Now a highly conscious man is able to express in loving way to her that he can only do so much.
Speaker A:This takes a lot of skill to be able to express that.
Speaker A:The importance is that it will come from a grounded place, it will come from a respectful place, and it will come from a loving place.
Speaker A:It won't be a no matter what I do, it's not good enough, what's your problem?
Speaker A:Attitude.
Speaker A:It will be a, hey, we need to talk about something.
Speaker A:I know who I am, I'm really showing up, I'm really giving my best and I still feel that we find ourselves again and again in that same pain.
Speaker A:Right, that's how that conversation would go.
Speaker A:But in most cases, a woman who is strongly in the grip of the Father wound won't be with such a man.
Speaker A:If she is, then she is very lucky because this man offers us an incredible learning opportunity in order to shed the Father Wound and release and take off the Father Wound glasses to truly see the man in front of her, unfiltered, raw as he truly is, rather than through a story I a past painful memory, or judging him against a version that doesn't exist.
Speaker A:In most cases, the more a woman is identified with her father wound, the more she will be with a man who struggles with deep unworthiness.
Speaker A:Every time she shuts down or creates distance, he will try harder to prove himself.
Speaker A:Or if she's the one always looking for hits of safety, she will be with a man who has just found his perfect match to get away with his bullshit.
Speaker A:A man who is in the grip of his own shadow and who wants to be with a woman who is not going to lovingly confront and challenge him.
Speaker A:Lovingly is the key.
Speaker A:Not just challenge him for the sake of it, but actually, you know, the Divine Feminine is meant to show you a true mirror.
Speaker A:Love will tell you what when something is not okay.
Speaker A:Love will tell you when a certain behavior is not mindful and is not loving.
Speaker A:So then in this case, with needing hits of safety and constant reassurance and constant need to stay in connection, even though she will abandon her own soul for the sake of it, she might then be with a man who just wants an easy life.
Speaker A:And easy life meaning where he doesn't have to face his own shadow.
Speaker A:But going back to the example of the man who struggles with unworthiness, he will keep trying to live up to a version that has nothing to do with who he truly is.
Speaker A:He will keep trying to be the father she never had, but he can only fail in the process.
Speaker A:And it will be enormously challenging.
Speaker A:And she will continue to feel unsafe with him, because the challenge here is he's trying to be something that she wants him to be, but it isn't who he truly is.
Speaker A:And she can simultaneously also feel the inauthenticity.
Speaker A:It's a complete paradox.
Speaker A:So what would need to happen is for this man to find his path, to find his core, who he truly is, and carry himself in a deeply respectful way towards his own truth.
Speaker A:Going back to what I shared before, a conscious man would say to her, hey, I'm Giving my best.
Speaker A:I'm showing up.
Speaker A:This is what's happening.
Speaker A:We need to talk about it.
Speaker A:And I really want to work through this right.
Speaker A:This is what would need to happen.
Speaker A:If you're listening to this or watching this as a woman, and if you're strongly in the grip of the father wound and expresses itself in the way that nothing is ever good enough, that this will feel challenging for you to hear in this moment.
Speaker A:But it's the exact medicine that allows you to grow, just as it's the exact medicine we men need to grow.
Speaker A:When you hold a crystal clear mirror for our unconscious patterns, behaviors or tendencies that keep us from a more mindful way of relating and from embodying our highest potential.
Speaker A:Just like you deserve to be seen for who you are, a man deserves to be seen for who he truly is.
Speaker A:Once you take down the father wound glasses and really see the man in front of you, you might be surprised that man will be imperfect, as we are all imperfect.
Speaker A:But you might find so many beautiful aspects and so many things that you appreciate deeply.
Speaker A:This might not always be the case, but another example I can give you.
Speaker A:In a women's group I was teaching, a woman shared about all the flaws that a man embodied.
Speaker A:And after going through the program which was healing your relationship with the masculine, she mentioned that she was constantly over focused on the flaws, which was also a way of keeping her mistrust in men and the father wound alive.
Speaker A:And that now she can see so many things that she appreciates.
Speaker A:Communication, the energy, the relationship with her husband has completely and entirely shifted.
Speaker A:And also he in turn then was able to truly receive when she requested something from him and did it with joy and love inside his heart.
Speaker A:That was the difference.
Speaker A:That is how powerful and how life changing this work can be.
Speaker A:Now let's talk about the four powerful practices in order as a woman to to shift out of this.
Speaker A:So the next time you feel triggered in your relationship or in a connection with a man, I invite you to write down exactly what happened.
Speaker A:The facts, not the story and emotional pain that accompanies it.
Speaker A:Write down the facts of what happened and then read it out loud.
Speaker A:And in that moment, you might actually realize that what happened is not necessarily directly related to the pain that your father has caused.
Speaker A:You might still be annoyed, you might still feel angry about it, you might still need repair initiated by him, but your energy has shifted.
Speaker A:You now have clarity.
Speaker A:It's very different to say, oh, there was a moment of imperfection or a moment momentarily conflict, or he's just like my father, it's the old pain, total shutdown.
Speaker A:There is a massive difference.
Speaker A:And that clarity allows you to be very rooted inside yourself, to still remain inside your heart, and to move through conflict in a much, much more graceful and easeful way that doesn't just wreck your nervous system.
Speaker A:Practice two.
Speaker A:What kind of safety are you actually looking for?
Speaker A:As I mentioned before, the desire for safety is natural.
Speaker A:Of course, you want a man who embodies a safe masculine presence, but at the same time, he cannot be the father you never had.
Speaker A:He cannot compensate for the pain that your father has caused.
Speaker A:So it is very important to understand whether the safety you are looking for is.
Speaker A:Is the natural, healthy safety that you're looking for as the feminine from the masculine, or you're looking for something that no man can provide.
Speaker A:If the latter is the case, then you need to take responsibility and you need to own that.
Speaker A:You also need to learn how to create safety inside yourself and with the right man, who embodies a safe masculine presence that then creates that level of harmony, connection, and intimacy that you truly desire.
Speaker A:This is becoming more prevalent where women who are stuck in the father wound might use the language of he needs to create more safety, but not realize that actually they haven't created any safety inside themselves.
Speaker A:It's not all up to a man.
Speaker A:There is a part that a man needs to own which leads us to practice number three, what is hers?
Speaker A:What is his?
Speaker A:And this kind of combines this ultimately, because here you can just ask the question, what is mine to own and what is his?
Speaker A:It's another version of practice one ultimately, but it allows you to truly take responsibility for how you are showing up, that is contributing to the pain that you no longer want to experience, that you want to shift, that you want to shed, that you want to release inside yourself and in the relationship and between both of you.
Speaker A:If you're right now in a relationship or a connection, what is mine to own, what is his?
Speaker A:And when you own yours with the right man, it will feel incredibly, it will be a big moment for him.
Speaker A:Because when and I did this practice with women where I would help them see what they have to own in the dynamic and when they did it, or those who were with a man who was conscious or willing to work on himself, then it unfolded into something really beautiful because he felt so seen and so met when she owned it.
Speaker A:And he was so grateful, right?
Speaker A:He was deeply cherishing this moment because in that moment, he didn't feel that he had to perform or be something more than who he can be and who he is deep down.
Speaker A:So if the right man, you owning that fully, right?
Speaker A:You might even say, hey, what happened before?
Speaker A:I was really annoyed about what you did.
Speaker A:And when you do xyz, it's challenging for me.
Speaker A:But you know what?
Speaker A:When I said to you, you're just like my father.
Speaker A:You're this, you're that, that is for me to own still.
Speaker A:You're stating your boundary.
Speaker A:You're expressing clearly that you want things to be different.
Speaker A:But you are not collapsing it with your own father wounding.
Speaker A:You're keeping that out of the whole thing.
Speaker A:And this is deeply, deeply safe for us men.
Speaker A:Yes, we too need to feel safe with you emotionally.
Speaker A:And this is how you create emotional safety with a man.
Speaker A:By owning when it has tipped into your own wound, then being projected onto him what is yours, what is his.
Speaker A:The more clarity you have on this or the more clarity a man has on this.
Speaker A:This is again the example of where the conscious man will come to you and say, I'm giving my best, I'm showing up.
Speaker A:But I still feel like that this challenge keeps repeating.
Speaker A:We need to work through this.
Speaker A:That's the example of where a man would have crystal clarity on what is his and what is yours.
Speaker A:Ideally both.
Speaker A:But usually it is one.
Speaker A:Depending on what the pattern is, depending on how deep the childhood or mother or father wounding goes, this always differs.
Speaker A:We're always there to support and help each other, right?
Speaker A:And we'll change roles in that regard many ways.
Speaker A:Because this is the evolution of a great relationship and of a great and deep divine union.
Speaker A:Practice number four, don't try to get rid of it.
Speaker A:What do I mean by this?
Speaker A:I was recently coaching a woman who expressed to me that she goes into this shutdown with men when something happens that reminds her of the pain her father has caused or of the painful relationship with her father.
Speaker A:She said to me, I need to get rid of this.
Speaker A:I don't have any control.
Speaker A:I need to do something.
Speaker A:And the more she did that, the more she felt stuck in it.
Speaker A:Because what happens is that you try.
Speaker A:You are telling your system and your body whatever you are experiencing right now is not okay.
Speaker A:But the practice has to be the opposite.
Speaker A:Everything is welcome, Everything is okay.
Speaker A:This doesn't serve as a justification or as an excuse to shut down and show up in a hurtful way.
Speaker A:No, what I mean by that is that you need to create that.
Speaker A:The internal capacity, or ideally, I invite you to, to welcome everything that is there when you feel shut down and you welcome whatever is underneath that, then you won't get stuck in it.
Speaker A:You can only get stuck in the response if you shame yourself or try to get rid of it.
Speaker A:And the ways we try to get away is twofold.
Speaker A:One is we shame ourselves and we get stuck in and we try to push it away.
Speaker A:Another, we put blame entirely onto the other person.
Speaker A:This is a more unconscious form of doing that.
Speaker A:It's a protection mechanism.
Speaker A:Because this way we don't have to face challenging and painful emotions.
Speaker A:Either way, the practice is to welcome fully what arises in that moment.
Speaker A:Because the truth is, you can still be intimate and vulnerable even when you're having this shutdown and experience.
Speaker A:And when I use the word intimate, I do not mean sexual or physical intimacy.
Speaker A:Absolutely not.
Speaker A:That's the last thing you're going to think about in that moment, or last thing you're going to feel emotionally and physically safe to do.
Speaker A:What I mean is intimate intimacy from the heart, emotional and spiritual intimacy.
Speaker A:Because in that moment, a woman can experience a shutdown and can say to a man, for instance, hold me in this, please.
Speaker A:And then he can actually be her protector rather than trying to be someone or the father she never had and who we can never be.
Speaker A:In that moment, she's saying, please hold me, please support me with this.
Speaker A:And he can actually show up as a protector.
Speaker A:And in that moment, she can actually experience the safety that she truly desires.
Speaker A:You see, you saw me in this episode or heard me jumping between many different examples.
Speaker A:This is because it shows up in so many different ways.
Speaker A:There's much, much more to this.
Speaker A:But I wanted to give you as much as I can in a 20 to 30, 35 minute episode.
Speaker A:I wanted to give you as much of a powerful understanding of this as I possibly can.
Speaker A:But I just want you to know the reason why this is so deep and why I'm jumping between topics is because there is so much more to it.
Speaker A:I could talk about each common expression for several hours and exactly the nuances in relationship dynamics of how it shows up, and I would still only scratch the surface.
Speaker A:But I wanted to give you an overall good understanding of this.
Speaker A:Of course, if you want to go deeper into this, learn the healing modalities.
Speaker A:I'm hosting Healing your Relationship with the Masculine program, my flagship program for women, several times throughout the year.
Speaker A:I also offer private coaching for men, for couples and for women.
Speaker A:You can find it on my page, lorincren.com coaching or if you want to know about my trainings, lorinkren.com trainings thank you so much for being here.
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